The phone call already happened. The house is too quiet. Or too loud. Shame is in the room with the grief. People will guess. Some will stay back.
If you are in danger tonight, get emergency help now, then talk with us. If you are using and you cannot stop, get human help now. Then come sit with us.
We will sit with you. [Anton: FILL]
You do not have to make this neat. Eat something if you can. Tell one person the truth. Write down what the funeral home asked. Sleep when the body will let you. Those small acts are enough for this hour.
God comforts the afflicted. He means to.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
(2 Corinthians 1:3-4)
The church in Thessalonica needed this too. People they loved had died. Paul would not leave them guessing.
But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.
(1 Thessalonians 4:13-14)
Grief is real. Hope is Christ crucified and risen. We do not invent a story about the last minutes. We do not invent a verdict on their soul. We do not treat an overdose as a small thing.
Chapter 31 of the Second London Baptist Confession of 1689 says death returns the body to dust. The soul goes to God. The righteous are with Christ. The wicked are reserved for judgment. Two places. No third room we get to invent. Chapter 32 says Jesus will judge every thought, word, and deed. That day belongs to him. We will not play judge in this living room.
The Baptist Faith and Message 2000, article IV, says salvation is the redemption of the whole man, offered freely to all who accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. There is no salvation apart from personal faith in him. Chapter 14 of the 1689 Confession says faith rests on Christ alone. Weak faith is still faith if it is resting there.
Article XV of the Baptist Faith and Message calls us to oppose vice and to provide for the needy, the abused, the helpless, and the sick. Addiction is a real destroyer. An overdose is a real death. We will help you bury them. We will help you tell the truth. We will not dress this up. We will hold out Jesus.
One next step with him: tell him their name. Then tell him yours. "Lord Jesus, I have no strength for this day. You died. You rose. Hold me." If you can, read 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 once out loud.
Come talk with us. Read the gospel. Ask for biblical counseling. When you can take one, a next step is ready.
If tonight is unsafe, get emergency help first.
















