We live together. Why get married?
Sharing a bed does not make you one flesh before God.

Anton Brown • Senior Pastor
August 24, 2026

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We live together. Why get married?

You already share a lease. Maybe you share a kid. Kingston rent in 2026 does not leave much room for two places. So you stacked the furniture and told yourselves you are committed. The phones already know. The bank already knows. Why add a courthouse and a church?

Because a lease is not a covenant. A shared password is not a vow. Sharing a bed does not make you one flesh before God.

A lot of couples wait. Student loans. Housing. A long engagement that never quite becomes a wedding. Porn on the phone after the other person falls asleep. You can live like spouses and still keep an exit in your back pocket. That exit is the point. Marriage closes it.

God is not trying to tax you. He is trying to protect you. Sex belongs inside a public promise between one man and one woman. Without that promise, you keep taking what marriage is meant to give, and you keep the right to leave when the month gets hard.

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 (ESV)

But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (ESV)

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4 (ESV)

The 1689 Confession, chapter 25, says marriage is "to be between one man and one woman." It was "ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife" and "for the prevention of immorality." Christians "are to marry in the Lord." The Baptist Faith and Message 2000, Article XVIII, says the same thing in plainer words: "Marriage is the uniting of one man and one woman in covenant commitment for a lifetime." A covenant you have not made is a covenant you do not have.

If you belong to Jesus, this is not a style question. The 1689, chapter 15, says repentance means you "humble yourselves" for specific sin, hate it, and "endeavor" to live in a way that pleases God. The BFM, Article IV, calls repentance "a genuine turning from sin toward God." Moving in together was a turn. Getting married in the Lord is a different turn.

One next step with Jesus: tell the truth this week. Name the arrangement. If you are both believers and free to marry, set a real date and stop playing house. If one of you does not know Christ, do not use a wedding to paper over unbelief. Start with Jesus. We will help you sort the lease, the family, and the timeline without pretending a lease is a vow.

Come talk. Read the gospel. Ask for biblical counseling. Take a next step if you are ready to follow Jesus in public, including baptism.

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August 26, 2026 • 4 Minute Read
What if my teenager will not come to church?
The car is ready. One bedroom door is not. You have asked. You have reasoned. You have used the tone you swore you would not use. They will not come. That ache is real. You have not failed the whole calling because this Sunday is a fight. You also have not been released from the calling. The church gathering is not a hobby you outgrow at fourteen. The 1689 Confession, 22.6, says more formal worship in public assemblies must not be carelessly or deliberately neglected when God calls us to them. Parents still set the house. As long as this child lives under your roof and eats your food, church on the Lord's Day remains the family's plan. Softening that into a maybe teaches them the assembly is optional when they are tired of it. Hold the line without turning the driveway into a courtroom. Say what is true. This family belongs to Jesus. We gather with his people. You are coming with us. Then keep your voice even. A slammed door and a shouted verse will not make them a worshiper. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4, ESV) Provoking them looks like mockery, surprise punishments, or a sudden rule you will not keep next week. Instruction looks like the same expectation, the same ride, the same pew, and a parent who is actually glad to be there. Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6, ESV) Stay at it. Do not treat the verse as a contract that buys their faith on your timetable. Here is the hard mercy: You cannot raise them from the dead. The 1689, chapter 10, says God effectually calls by his Word and Spirit. Chapter 14 says the grace of faith is the Spirit's work, ordinarily through the ministry of the Word. Your job is to keep them near that Word. His job is the new heart. So you keep bringing them. You keep reading a little at home. You keep praying when they can hear you and when they cannot. You refuse both despair and the sales pitch. If they sit in the service with earbuds in their pocket and a stone face, you still brought them. If they will sing nothing, you sing. Afterward, ask one honest question in the car. Do not grade the answer. Eat together. Let the rest of the week show that Christ is not a Sunday costume. Some refusals have a story under them. A wound at church. A secret sin. A friend who mocked belief. Hypocrisy they clocked at home. Ask. If you find your own sin in the pile, confess it to them without making them your priest. The Baptist Faith and Message 2000, Article XVIII, says parents demonstrate God's pattern and lead by example. A teenager can smell a parent who wants church for the child and not for himself. If they are already eighteen and gone from the house, you cannot drive them into the building. You can invite. You can keep your own place in the assembly. You can ask to talk. You can refuse to pretend unbelief is a small thing. You can keep the door of the home warm. Jesus is not done because a teenager is loud this month. Faith may be weak. Chapter 14 says even weak faith is still a different kind of thing than a show of religion. Pray toward that. Point them to Christ, not to your reputation as a parent. One next step This week, tell your teenager the plan in one calm sentence, a day before Sunday. Then pray, where they can hear you, that Jesus would make them alive. Keep your seat in the gathering either way. If you have never settled the gospel yourself, read the gospel. If baptism has been sitting there as unfinished obedience, see Baptism. If the fight in the house is bigger than Sunday morning, ask for help from our biblical counselors. Come talk with us. We have sat with parents in this exact chair. We will walk with you while you wait on the Lord.

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August 25, 2026 • 3 Minute Read
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You already know. The glow is on at breakfast. The show is on in the back seat. You check one more message while they talk. They learned that from you. So did I, in my own house. Exhausted parents in 2026 reach for the screen because the day has more in it than the body can hold. Shame will not fix this, but a simpler plan might. God never handed your children to a device. He handed them to you. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, ESV) Sit. Walk. Lie down. Rise. Those are ordinary hours. The phone stole those hours because it is always in the hand. You cannot talk of the Lord's words while both of you stare down. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4, ESV) Provoking them can look like a sudden crackdown after months of no limit. Instruction looks like a rule you will keep with them. The Baptist Faith and Message 2000, Article XVIII, says parents lead by consistent lifestyle example and loving discipline. The Second London Confession, 22.6, says each family should worship God daily, and each person should do so privately. A family that never lifts its eyes from a screen will not do that. You do not need a long program. You need the phone out of the way long enough to hear a verse and pray. Start with your own phone. Children smell a double standard in one afternoon. Charge it in the kitchen after a set hour. Leave it in another room for dinner. If work texts cannot wait, say so out loud, then put it down again. Ask their forgiveness when you fail. That sentence teaches more than a lecture. Then set the house. No phones in bedrooms overnight if you can help it. One charging basket. Screens off for the first stretch of the morning. Sunday morning is not a second inbox in the pew. If they already have a device, you still own the password, the app list, and the time. If they do not have one yet, you are allowed to wait. Many parents around here feel the press from school group chats and sports. Waiting is still a choice you can make. Expect pushback. A quiet house feels loud at first. Keep the meal. Keep a short reading. Keep your voice kind and the rule firm. Aim at a child who can hear the Word. A clean look can wait. Chapter 14 of the 1689 says faith is ordinarily produced by the ministry of the Word. A feed will not do that work. One next step Pick one hour in the next twenty-four. Dinner is enough. Phones in a basket. Read Deuteronomy 6:6-7. Ask one child one real question. Pray for Jesus to have that hour tomorrow too. If the phone has already run past you into porn, cruelty, or a secret life, do not handle it alone. Come to biblical counseling. If you need a simple next step toward life with this church, just take the next step. We will help you put the basket on the table.

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August 23, 2026 | The Kingdom Road
Dear Mayflower family, This morning we sat down together in Acts 14:19-23 and watched Paul get stoned at Lystra, dragged out of the city for dead, and then rise and walk back through the same gate. He went on to strengthen the young churches with one sentence the whole passage turns on. Through many tribulations. Not around them. Through them. He was pulling up by the roots the quiet lie that if following Jesus is costing us, something has gone wrong. Now that you have heard the sermon, this week is a chance to live inside that one truth from every side. The readings below do not re-walk Sunday's passage. They walk around it, one thread each day. Monday we stand at the foot of the King's own road, the suffering He passed through into glory. Tuesday and Wednesday we sit with what it means to suffer with Christ and to be kept by Him. Thursday we learn to run the race with endurance, eyes on Jesus. And Friday we come back from the far side of the sermon to the promise that the One who began a good work in you will finish it. Take five minutes a day, or sit with the whole week at once. There is no wrong way to use them. One more thing before you begin. Somewhere in this church, a believer is walking a hard road right now, tired and half-afraid they will not make it to the end. Carry them before God this week, and if the Lord brings a name to mind, go and help them carry it. No one was ever meant to walk the kingdom road alone. In Christ, Pastor Anton Five-Day Devotional Monday: The road the King walked Read: Luke 24:25-27 On the Emmaus road the risen Jesus asks two heartbroken disciples, "Was it not necessary that the Christ should suffer these things and enter into his glory?" The same small word "necessary" that Paul laid over your road in Acts 14, Jesus laid first over His own. Cross, then crown; He did not send you down a road He refused to walk Himself. Pray: Lord Jesus, thank You that You walked the road of suffering into glory ahead of me, and that I only ever follow where You have already gone. Tuesday: Suffering with Him Read: Romans 8:16-18 Paul calls believers heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, "provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him." Suffering is not the fine you pay to sneak into the kingdom; it is the fellowship of walking your King's own road, step for step, behind Him. And the glory ahead is not worth comparing to it. Pray: Father, when the cost of following You feels heavy, remind me it is fellowship with Christ, and that the glory coming is greater than all of it. Wednesday: Kept by the Lord Read: John 10:27-30 Jesus says of His sheep, "I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand." Paul and Barnabas committed the young churches to that same Lord for safekeeping. Your standing at the end of the hard road will never rest on the strength of your grip on Him; it rests on the strength of His grip on you. Pray: Lord Jesus, thank You that I am held in Your hand, and that nothing, not even my own weakness, can snatch me out of it. Thursday: Run with endurance Read: Hebrews 12:1-3 The writer tells a tired church to run the race set before them with endurance, "looking to Jesus," who endured the cross for the joy set before Him. You continue not by staring at your own strength but by fixing your eyes on the One who already finished the course. Consider Him, so that you will not grow weary or fainthearted. Father, when I am tempted to quit, lift my eyes off myself and fix them on Jesus, who ran the whole road ahead of me and finished it. Friday: He will finish it Read: Philippians 1:3-6 Coming home from the far side of Sunday's sermon, hear Paul's confidence: "he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." Verse 22 charged you to continue, and this is why you will. The work was His to start, and it is His to finish. Carry that settled rest into next Sunday's gathering. Pray: Father, thank You that the good work You began in me is Yours to complete, and that You have never once dropped what was placed in Your hands. Through many tribulations. Not around them. Through them. The King went first, and He will keep you all the way home.

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August 22, 2026 • 6 Minute Read
The Kingdom Road: Family Devotional
Dear Mayflower family, Here is this week's Family Devotional, ready for your table. If this is your first time opening one, welcome. It is a single page that takes the sermon we just heard on Sunday and brings it home, so the Word preached in the pew and the Word talked over at dinner are the same Word. You do not need to be a teacher or know your Bible cold to lead it. You can do the whole page in about ten minutes in one sitting, or take one small step a night, Monday through Friday. There is no wrong way. One unhurried faith talk this week is a win. This week the page grows out of "The Kingdom Road," from Acts 14:19-23. The heart of it is this: the road into God's kingdom goes through hard things, not around them, and Jesus walked that road first and keeps His people on it all the way home. Paul was stoned and left for dead, and then he got up and walked right back into the city, because the God who saves us also holds on to us. That is the picture your table will be sitting with this week. Read together, talk together, pray together, sing together. Here is this week's page. Pastor Anton This week's Big Idea: The road into God's kingdom goes through hard things, not around them. But Jesus walked that road first, and He holds on to His people the whole way home. Memory verse for the week: "Through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God." (Acts 14:22) Say it together at the start of each time you gather. By Friday, see who can say it without looking. 1. READ (start here every time) This week's passage: Acts 14:19-23 (ESV). Read it out loud together. With young children, read it once slowly. With older children and teens, read it and then ask what stood out. If you are taking one step a night, read a short slice each evening: Monday, Acts 14:19, a mob stones Paul and drags him out of the city; Tuesday, Acts 14:20, the believers gather around him and he gets up and walks back in; Wednesday, Acts 14:21-22, Paul goes back to tell the new Christians the way into God's kingdom goes through hard things; Thursday, Acts 14:22, we go through many troubles to enter God's kingdom, and Jesus went that way first; Friday, Acts 14:23, Paul hands the churches to God to keep them safe. 2. THINK (a thought a parent can read out loud, cold) Following God can be hard, and Acts 14 shows us it is true. Paul was hurt badly for telling people about Jesus. But he got up and kept going, and he told the new Christians something surprising: the way into God's kingdom goes through hard things, not around them. Here is the best part. Jesus walked that very same road first. He suffered, and then He rose and went to glory. So when life is hard for someone who loves Jesus, it does not mean God has left. It means they are on Jesus' own road, walking right behind Him, and Jesus never lets go of the people who are His. 3. TALK (pick the questions that fit your table; you do not need to ask them all) For young children: When you fall down and get hurt, who helps you get back up? The Bible says God's people helped Paul get up after he was hurt. How does it feel to know God gives us people to help us up? For school-age children: Paul said the way into God's kingdom goes through hard things, not around them. Why is it good news that Jesus walked that same hard road before us? For teens: A lot of people quietly believe that if God really loved them, life would get easier. Acts 14 says the opposite: the hard road can be the true road. Where have you felt that tension, and what would it change to believe Jesus is on the road ahead of you, not disappointed with you? For the whole table: Verse 23 says Paul handed the new Christians to God to keep them safe. What would change in our family if we really believed God is holding on to us, even when things are hard? 4. DO (one small thing to carry the truth into the week) Do this: This week, find one person who is going through something hard, a friend, a neighbor, someone at church, and do one small thing to help them carry it. Bring them a treat, write them a note, or just sit with them. Decide together tonight who it will be, then do it before Friday. Another way to do this: Make a card together as a family with the words of our memory verse on it, and give it to someone who is tired or sad, so they know God is holding them and our family is with them too. If you would rather, you can say the memory verse out loud to that person instead of giving a card. Pick the one you can do. 5. PRAY (a parent leads; pray it as written or in your own words) Father, thank You that the way into Your kingdom goes through hard things, and that Jesus walked it first, from suffering into glory. Thank You that You never let go of the people who are Yours. We ask You to give each of our children a heart that truly trusts Jesus, so they would follow Him all the way home. And help our family walk with people who are having a hard time. In Jesus' name, amen. 6. SING (close by singing one together) This week's song: "He Will Hold Me Fast" (it says exactly what this passage teaches, that we are kept safe not by how tightly we hold on to God but by how tightly He holds on to us). Sing one verse, or the whole thing. If your family does not know it, read the first verse out loud together instead. One faith talk this week is a win. If your family can do this most nights, even better. Keep it short, keep it warm, keep coming back to it.

Anton Brown

Senior Pastor

August 9, 2026 • 5 Minute Read
August 9, 2026 | He Bears Witness
Dear Mayflower family, Sunday morning we sat down together in Acts 14:1-7 and watched two men, Paul and Barnabas, walk into a city that did not want their message. Instead of going quiet as the room turned cold, they grew bolder and stayed a long time. Why? Verse 3 tells us. They were speaking for the Lord, who bore witness to the word of his grace. The One who sent the message stood up in that hostile city and put his own name behind it. By the end of the chapter the city had split in two, a plot to stone them had formed, and they simply fled to the next town and preached the same word all over again. Now that you have heard the sermon, the week ahead is a chance to live inside that one comfort from every side: you do not speak about Jesus alone. The readings below do not re-walk Sunday’s passage. They walk around it, one thread each day, so that by Friday you are standing more firmly on the courage the sermon opened up. Monday we watch the Lord confirm his own word. Tuesday we see him open a closed heart. Wednesday we hear him promise to give us the words when we are afraid. Thursday we remember that the word of God cannot be chained. And Friday we go to the church at prayer, asking for the same boldness Paul and Barnabas were given. Take five minutes a day, or sit with the whole week at once. There is no wrong way to use them. Before you begin, would you do one thing for me? Somewhere God has already put a person in front of you, someone who admires Jesus from a distance and has never crossed over: a neighbor, a coworker, someone in your own family. Carry that person before God all week, and ask him for one open door and the courage to walk through it. Remember that you are not the guarantor of the gospel. He is. The Lord vouches for his own word of grace, and he will back the word he sends through you. In Christ, Pastor Anton Five-Day Devotional Monday: He bears witness Read: Hebrews 2:1-4 The signs and wonders in Acts 14 were never proof of how gifted Paul and Barnabas were. Hebrews tells us plainly what they were: God himself bearing witness to the great salvation first declared by the Lord. When you speak the gospel, that same God stands behind it, confirming his own word of grace long after the miracles have gone quiet. Father, thank You that You never leave Your gospel to stand on its own, but bear witness to it Yourself. Tuesday: The Lord opened her heart Read: Acts 16:11-15 A great number believed at Iconium, and Luke never credits the preacher’s skill. Here is why. When Lydia believed, it was because the Lord opened her heart to pay attention. Faith is God’s own work underneath the words we speak. That is why we can open our mouths with hope and leave the results to him. Lord, open hearts this week that I could never open, and let me be faithful to speak while You do the work only You can do. Wednesday: I will give you words Read: Luke 12:4-12 Most of us go quiet because we are secretly carrying the whole weight ourselves: what if I say it wrong, what if they ask what I cannot answer? Jesus lifts that weight. Do not be anxious how you will speak, he says, for the Spirit will teach you in that very hour. Your job is faithfulness. His job is the witness. Holy Spirit, take away my fear of saying it wrong, and give me the words when the moment comes. Thursday: The word is not bound Read: 2 Timothy 2:8-13 They ran Paul out of Iconium, and the word simply moved to the next town and kept preaching. Paul later sat in a prison cell and wrote the reason down: the word of God is not bound. You can chain the messenger. You cannot chain the message. It has run for two thousand years, and it ran all the way to you. Father, thank You that nothing can stop Your word, and that it reached even me. Friday: Boldness to speak Read: Acts 4:23-31 When the first Christians were threatened for preaching Christ, they did not ask God to make the threats stop. They asked him for boldness to keep speaking, and he shook the room and filled them with the Spirit. Come back from the other side of Sunday’s sermon and pray that same prayer, and carry the boldness into next Sunday’s gathering. Lord, do not let a little discomfort silence me, but grant me boldness to speak Your word of grace. The Lord vouches for his own word of grace. So speak the word he puts in front of you, and leave the witness to him.

Anton Brown

Senior Pastor

August 9, 2026 • 5 Minute Read
He Bears Witness: Family Devotional
Dear Mayflower family, Here is this week’s Family Devotional, ready for your table. If this is your first time opening one, welcome. It is a single page that takes the sermon we just heard on Sunday and brings it home, so the Word preached in the pew and the Word talked over at dinner are the same Word. You do not need to be a teacher or know your Bible cold to lead it. You can do the whole page in about ten minutes in one sitting, or take one small step a night, Monday through Friday. There is no wrong way. One unhurried faith talk this week is a win. This week the page grows out of “He Bears Witness,” from Acts 14:1-7. The heart of it is this: when God sends us to tell people about Jesus, He does not send us alone; He stands behind every word and makes it do its work. Two men walked into a city that did not want their message and grew braver instead of quieter, because they knew who was standing behind them. That is the picture your table will be sitting with this week. Read together, talk together, pray together, sing together. Here is this week’s page. Pastor Anton This week’s Big Idea: When God sends us to tell people about Jesus, He does not send us alone. He stands behind every word and helps it do its work. Memory verse for the week: “the Lord, who bore witness to the word of his grace” (Acts 14:3) Say it together at the start of each time you gather. By Friday, see who can say it without looking. 1. READ (start here every time) This week’s passage: Acts 14:1-3 (ESV), inside the bigger story of Acts 14:1-7. Read it out loud together. With young children, read it once slowly. With older children and teens, read it and then ask what stood out. If you are taking one step a night, read a short slice each evening: Monday, Acts 14:1, a great number believe; Tuesday, Acts 14:2, some hearts turn hard; Wednesday, Acts 14:3, the Lord backs the word with his own witness; Thursday, Acts 14:4, the city splits in two; Friday, Acts 14:5-7, they are chased out, and keep preaching. 2. THINK (a thought a parent can read out loud, cold) Paul and Barnabas walked into a city that did not want to hear about Jesus, and instead of getting quiet, they got braver. How? God Himself stood behind their words and helped them. When we tell people about Jesus, God does not send us out alone. He is right there, doing the real work in people’s hearts, the same Jesus who died and rose to make us His own. Our job is just to open our mouths. God’s job is to make the words land. 3. TALK (pick the questions that fit your table; you do not need to ask them all) For young children: When you are scared to do something, it helps to have a grown-up right beside you. Who was standing beside Paul and Barnabas, helping them, even when the whole city was against them? For school-age children: Paul and Barnabas got braver when things got harder, not quieter. What made them so brave? For teens: Have you ever gone quiet about Jesus because you were afraid of what someone would think? Paul was told the whole thing did not rest on him, because God stood behind the message. Would it change anything for you to know you are not carrying that alone? For the whole table: God helps the words we say about Jesus do their work. Who is one person our family could tell about Jesus this week? 4. DO (one small thing to carry the truth into the week) Do this: Paul and Barnabas kept telling people about Jesus even when it was hard. As a family, pick one person who may not know Jesus, and this week tell them one true thing about Him. Decide together tonight who it will be, then do it before Friday. Another way to do this: Practice first, right here. Go around the table and let each person say one thing about Jesus they love, out loud, the way you would tell a friend. One sentence is plenty. If you would rather, draw a picture of it and show it to someone this week. Say it or draw it. Pick the one you can do. 5. PRAY (a parent leads; pray it as written or in your own words) Father, thank You that when we tell people about Jesus, You never send us out alone. You stand behind Your own word and make it do its work. Please give each of our children a new heart that truly trusts Christ, and make our whole family brave to speak about Him. In Jesus’ name, amen. 6. SING (close by singing one together) This week’s song: “He Will Hold Me Fast” (it says the Lord keeps hold of us and will never let us go, just as He stands behind His own word and will not let it fail). Sing one verse, or the whole thing. If your family does not know it, read the first verse out loud together instead. One faith talk this week is a win. If your family can do this most nights, even better. Keep it short, keep it warm, keep coming back to it.

Anton Brown

Senior Pastor

August 2, 2026 • 6 Minute Read
August 2, 2026 | What the Law Could Never Do
Dear Mayflower family, Sunday morning, we sat down together in Acts 13:13-52, in a synagogue in Antioch of Pisidia, where Paul stood up among people who had the holiest, truest document in the world, the law of Moses, and told them plainly what that good law could never do. It could read them their sentence. It could not lift it. By the end of his sermon the room had split down the middle: some begged to hear more, and some folded their arms and walked away. The whole thing turned on two verses, 38 and 39, where Paul says that everyone who believes is freed from everything the law of Moses could never free them from. Now that you have heard the sermon, the week ahead is a chance to live inside that one promise from every side. The readings below do not re-walk Sunday's passage. They walk around it, one thread each day, so that by Friday you are standing more firmly on the gospel you heard preached. Monday we go back to the promise God made to David. Tuesday and Wednesday we sit with what it means to be freed and justified by faith and not by our record. Thursday we follow the light out to the nations, which is the only reason it ever reached us. And Friday we come back from the other side of the sermon and look squarely at Christ, where assurance is actually found. Take five minutes a day, or sit with the whole week at once. There is no wrong way to use them. Before you begin, would you do one thing for me? Somewhere in this church there is a person exactly like those God-fearers in that synagogue: someone who loves this church, respects the Bible, believes there is a God, and has never actually crossed over and trusted Christ. It may be a friend, a coworker, a member of your own family. Carry that person before God all week, and pray that this would be the week they look at Jesus and believe. Grace ran wider than anyone in that room expected, and it can run that wide again. In Christ, Pastor Anton Five-Day Devotional Monday: As He promised Read: 2 Samuel 7:12-16 Centuries before Paul stood up in that synagogue, God made a promise to David that one of his sons would have a kingdom that lasts forever. On Sunday we heard Paul say of Jesus, "as he promised," and this is the promise he meant. The Savior was not God's afterthought or plan B; He was named and pledged long before He was born. Your salvation does not rest on how strongly you can believe today. It rests on a promise God made in history and a promise God kept. Father, thank You that my hope rests on a promise You made and kept, and not on the strength of my own faith. Tuesday: What the law could never do Read: Romans 3:19-24 The law is holy, true in every word, and it does one thing perfectly: it stops every mouth and shows the whole world to be accountable to God. What it cannot do is take the guilt away. Paul says it plainly here, the same thing he said in the synagogue: no one is justified by keeping the law, but we are justified freely by grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus. The law is the truest diagnosis ever written, and Christ is the cure. Lord, keep me from ever trusting my own record, and teach me to rest entirely on the righteousness You give me as a gift. Wednesday: Everyone who believes Read: Romans 4:4-8 To be justified is to have God the Judge look at you and declare you to be in the right. Not improving, not trying hard, not on the right track, but acquitted, the case against you closed. Paul says the blessing comes to the one who does not work but believes, and he calls back to David, who spoke of the man whose sins the Lord will never count against him. That is the offer Paul made to everyone in the room: everyone who believes is freed, from everything, no matter their record. Father, thank You that You count me righteous not because of what I have done, but because of what Christ has done for me. Thursday: A light for the nations Read: Isaiah 49:5-6 When the synagogue pushed the gospel away, Paul and Barnabas turned to the Gentiles, and they grounded that turn in a promise God had made in Isaiah hundreds of years before. The going-out to the nations was never a backup plan cobbled together after rejection; it was written into Scripture from the start. "I will make you as a light for the nations, that my salvation may reach to the end of the earth." The light was never meant to stay in one synagogue, and the proof it reached the end of the earth is that it reached you. Lord, thank You that Your light traveled all the way to me, and make me one who carries it to the next person who needs it. Friday: Look to Christ Read: John 6:37-40 Acts 13 says that as many as were appointed to eternal life believed, and a tender heart can tie itself in knots wondering, "Am I one of them?" Scripture never sends you to climb into heaven and read some hidden book. It sends you to Christ. Jesus says here that whoever comes to Him He will never cast out, and that it is the Father's will that everyone who looks to the Son and believes should have eternal life. Coming home from the other side of Sunday's sermon, do not stare inward hunting for proof. Look at Jesus, believe, and carry that settled rest into next Sunday's gathering. Father, when I am tempted to search my own heart for assurance, turn my face to Christ, where it is actually found. The law can read you your sentence. Only Christ can lift it. So look at Him, and believe, and be free.

Anton Brown

Senior Pastor